When someone you love is using, it doesn’t feel like their problem. It feels like a wildfire that’s jumped the fence and set your whole life on edge. You’re scared. You’re tired. But more than anything—you’re heartbroken.
You might feel like you’re loving someone who’s slipping further away each day. Like you’re watching their soul disappear while they pretend everything is fine. Or worse—maybe they know it’s not fine, but they’ve stopped caring.
And the part no one talks about? Sometimes, you’re more afraid of losing them than they are of losing themselves.
That’s not weakness. That’s love under pressure.
If that’s where you are, we want you to know: our detox center in Indiana isn’t just for the person struggling—it’s here for the person who loves them too.
Is it normal to feel this scared?
Yes. Absolutely.
When you love someone who’s using substances, you live in two realities:
- The good days—when you see their potential, feel the love, remember who they are.
- The hard days—when you wonder if the person you love is already gone, buried under denial, withdrawal, or emotional numbness.
This is emotional whiplash. And fear becomes your baseline.
You start to ask yourself:
- Am I helping, or just holding on?
- Is today the day something terrible happens?
- If they don’t care about getting better… what happens to me?
You’re not imagining the stakes. You’re living them.
What if they don’t want treatment?
That’s more common than you think—and not always the end of the road.
Denial is a survival strategy, especially when someone feels ashamed, hopeless, or afraid. And even when they know they need help, they may not know how to ask.
But here’s what we’ve seen over and over at Ladoga Recovery Center:
Sometimes, it’s one moment of clarity—a quiet conversation, a soft boundary, a safe option—that finally makes the difference.
Your job isn’t to force them into change. It’s to keep holding open the door.
What role does detox actually play?
Detox is often the first medical step toward recovery. It’s not a fix-all—but it is a foundation.
When someone has developed a physical dependence on alcohol, opioids, benzodiazepines, or other substances, stopping suddenly can be painful or dangerous. Medically supervised detox helps:
- Stabilize vital signs
- Manage withdrawal symptoms
- Prepare for the emotional work of healing
Think of it like clearing the fog. Detox gets the body clear enough to let the heart and mind catch up.
At our Indiana detox center, we treat detox as more than a clinical process. It’s a doorway to dignity, rest, and a real beginning.
What does “supporting without enabling” actually look like?
This is one of the hardest questions for partners to ask—and one of the most courageous.
Enabling often comes from love: covering for missed work, managing chaos, fixing every consequence. But support is different. It’s loving someone without hiding the truth.
Support sounds like:
- “I love you too much to pretend this isn’t serious.”
- “I’m not here to punish you. I’m here to help you find a way forward.”
- “When you’re ready, I’ll walk with you. But I won’t walk for you.”
You don’t have to be perfect. Just real. That’s what love looks like when it’s trying to survive.
What if I’ve tried everything?
Then you’re probably more resilient than you realize.
So many partners reach out to us after months—or years—of trying to carry it all. They’ve begged. They’ve cried. They’ve threatened. They’ve stayed silent. None of it worked the way they hoped.
We want you to know: If you’re still reading this, you haven’t failed.
The truth is, change doesn’t usually happen all at once. But sometimes it starts when the loved one—the you in this story—stops pretending it’s fine and starts getting support for themselves.
That might mean calling us to ask about detox.
It might mean talking to a counselor about boundaries.
It might simply mean saying, “I can’t do this alone anymore.”
Every one of those steps counts.
What makes Ladoga’s detox center different?
We’re more than a facility. We’re a place where people find their footing again.
Located in Ladoga, Indiana, our detox program offers:
- 24/7 medical care to manage physical symptoms
- Mental health support during withdrawal
- Safe, stigma-free environment for both clients and families
- Next-step planning for ongoing recovery
Whether your loved one is ready to call today—or you’re the one reaching out alone—our team meets you with clarity and compassion.
We know what this fight looks like. We’ve seen it turn around.
How do I even begin?
You start here. You start now.
You don’t need to know everything. You don’t need to convince them. You just need one conversation with someone who understands both addiction and the pain of loving someone through it.
📞 Call (888) 628-6202 or visit our detox program in Indiana
We’ll talk to you like a human. No pressure. Just real help, one step at a time.
FAQ: Loving Someone Through Detox and Addiction
How long does detox take?
Most detox programs last between 3 to 7 days, depending on the substance used and severity of withdrawal symptoms. Our team at Ladoga evaluates each client to determine the safest, most supportive plan.
Can I be involved in their detox process?
Yes—often in meaningful ways. While detox is a medical process and privacy is protected, we work with families to support healthy communication, updates, and future planning. Your presence matters.
What if they refuse to go?
That’s painful—but not uncommon. You can still make a plan, learn about options, and even speak to an admissions team about what to expect. Sometimes, just having clarity helps you set better boundaries or recognize a moment of readiness when it comes.
Does insurance cover detox?
In many cases, yes. We accept a range of insurance plans and can help verify coverage quickly and confidentially. Even if you’re unsure about finances, reach out. We’ll walk you through what’s possible.
What comes after detox?
After detox, many clients move into residential treatment, partial hospitalization, or intensive outpatient care—depending on their needs. Detox clears the body, but healing the mind and heart takes more time. We help plan for all of it.
Can I talk to someone without them knowing?
Yes. You can call and ask questions without committing to anything. Everything is confidential. This is about you getting support, too.
You’re Not Alone in This
You don’t have to know how it ends to take the next step.
Whether you’re still holding out hope or holding on by a thread, you’re not alone—and neither is the person you love.
Call (888) 628-6202 or visit Ladoga Recovery Center’s detox center in Indiana. We’ll meet you both where you are—with honesty, safety, and the real possibility of change.